Deborah Copaken

In 2019, her New York Times Modern Love essay, "When Cupid is a Prying Journalist," was adapted into Episode 2 of Amazon's Modern Love series, with Catherine Keener playing Copaken. She also collaborated with Tommy Siegel of Jukebox the Ghost.

In Slate.com, Copaken wrote that she was assaulted physically or sexually multiple times in her early twenties. In The New York Times, she wrote that she endured a number of random assaults and muggings, including two robberies at gunpoint, by strangers during her senior year at Harvard University and afterward: "[S]ome were quite scary". In March 2018 in The Atlantic, writing in second-person narrative, she accused New York Observer editor Ken Kurson of sexually harassing her.

Copaken has also recounted that she was date raped on the night before her graduation. The next day she reported the incident to the university's health service, but was advised not to report her rape to police by her psychologist as the lengthy legal process might have affected her plans after graduation. In September 2018 in The Atlantic, she wrote that exactly 30 years after the incident in Harvard, she wrote to her assailant to remind him of the incident, and within half an hour the assailant called and apologized to her.

She has performed and curated live storytelling for The Moth, Afterbirth, the Six Word Memoir series, Women of Letters, and Words and Music. She has also ventured into screenwriting, and it was reported that she was adapting Shutterbabe as a TV series for NBC in 2014. She was a consultant on Darren Star's Younger and is currently a staff writer on his new show Emily in Paris. She has been interviewed by several news program including The Today Show and Good Morning America.

In 2013, Copaken wrote an essay for The Nation detailing sexism she has encountered and observed in her career. In November 2017 in Oprah.com, she published a 3,500-word account of her supracervical hysterectomy, adenomyosis and trachelectomy, and her subsequent recovery in Nepal. In July 2018 in The Atlantic, in an essay pertaining to Roe V. Wade, she wrote that three of her five pregnancies were unplanned and that she had undergone two abortions.

Her second novel, The Red Book, published by Hyperion/VOICE in April 2012, was a New York Times bestseller. The book was long-listed for the 2013 Women's Prize for Fiction. In 2016 and 2017, she released two nonfiction The ABCs of Adulthood and The ABCs of Parenthood, in collaboration with illustrator Randy Polumbo.

In 2001, she published a memoir of her experiences in war photojournalism, Shutterbabe. Her first novel Between Here and April was published in 2008 and won the November Elle Reader's Prize. In 2009, she released a book of comic essays, Hell is Other Parents, some of which appeared in the New Yorker and The New York Times.

Copaken graduated from Harvard University in 1988. She lived in Paris and Moscow before moving to New York City in 1992. She became engaged to and married Paul Kogan in 1993. They have three children: son Jacob (b. 1995); daughter Sasha (b. 1997); and son Leo (b. 2006). In 2018, she and Kogan divorced; as she wrote in The Atlantic, they did so without legal assistance, at a cost of $626.50.

Prior to beginning a writing career, Copaken was a war photographer from 1988 to 1992, and a television producer at ABC and NBC from 1992 to 1998. For the former, she was based in Paris and Moscow, while shooting assignments on conflicts in Zimbabwe, Afghanistan, Romania, Pakistan, Israel, Soviet Union and other places. She first worked as a producer at Day One in ABC News, where she received an Emmy, then in Dateline NBC.

She was born Deborah Elizabeth Copaken in Boston, Massachusetts, the daughter of Marjorie Ann (née Schwartz) and Richard Daniel Copaken. Her father was a White House Fellow and lawyer. She grew up in Maryland, first in Adelphi, and then from 1970 in Potomac. She has three siblings.

Deborah Copaken (born March 11, 1966) is an American author and photojournalist.